Author Hara Estroff Marano and psychiatrist Dr. Anna Yusim describe such moments as:. They are, however, transformative. With their mix of insight and intensity, they give life new direction, forever altering the connection people have with each other and, often enough, with themselves. They go to the heart of who we are. You realize that now all of it makes sense. Life has a way of making us question even our own sanity at times. But allowing yourself to believe that even this chaos has a purpose allows you to take a step back and look at your life more closely.
It allows you to pick at the things that do have meaning and do make sense. This makes you create better decisions in the future and gives you renewed motivation and purpose to go forward. Everything that happens for a reason teaches you valuable lessons. It can even shatter your old beliefs, literally changing you into a better version of yourself.
You learn to look at things in a different light. Your ideals and the way you approach things can even do a complete Change is an important aspect of life. Setbacks are there to teach us great lessons. These are things we all should learn to embrace. I can choose to sit in perpetual sadness, immobilised by the gravity of my loss, or I can choose to rise from the pain and treasure the most precious gift I have — life itself.
I just wished the reason would hurry up and make itself known. Things happen suddenly, unexpectedly. We want to feel we are in control of our own existence. We are ruled by the forces of chance and coincidence. Everything happens for a reason. Every person we meet have a roll in our life, either it is big or small. Some will hurt, betray and make us cry. Some will teach us lesson, not to change us, but to make us to be a better person. Those experiences made me what I am.
Until then, laugh at the confusion, live for the moments, and know everything happens for a reason. People are so obsessed with things like karma , fate or serendipity. It gives us valuable introspection that can be hard to obtain when life gets really hard. But never forget the power of will and hard work. According to Bloom and fellow psychology researcher Konika Banerjee:. This fosters the illusion that the world itself is full of purpose and design. At the end of the day, everything does happen for a reason.
But what you can control is your reaction to it. Genefe Navilon is a writer, poet, and blogger. Her poetry blog, Letters To The Sea, currently has 18, followers. Her work has been published in different websites and poetry book anthologies. She divides her time between traveling, writing, and working on her debut poetry book.
Search Search for: Search. Login Login. In his quest to discover the true meaning of life, he suggested there were two constants in life: First, the universe is constantly changing and evolving. Does everything happen for a reason? I am, however, using a different definition of reason. As for you, you meant evil against me, but God meant it for good, to bring it about that many people should be kept alive, as they are today.
It is for discipline that you have to endure. God is treating you as sons. For what son is there whom his father does not discipline? If you are left without discipline, in which all have participated, then you are illegitimate children and not sons. Besides this, we have had earthly fathers who disciplined us and we respected them.
Shall we not much more be subject to the Father of spirits and live? For they disciplined us for a short time as it seemed best to them, but he disciplines us for our good, that we may share his holiness. For the moment all discipline seems painful rather than pleasant, but later it yields the peaceful fruit of righteousness to those who have been trained by it. Do not be deceived: God is not mocked, for whatever one sows, that will he also reap.
For the one who sows to his own flesh will from the flesh reap corruption, but the one who sows to the Spirit will from the Spirit reap eternal life. The Lord has made everything for its purpose, even the wicked for the day of trouble.
The lot is cast into the lap, but its every decision is from the Lord. Whatever you do, work heartily, as for the Lord and not for men, knowing that from the Lord you will receive the inheritance as your reward. You are serving the Lord Christ. For the wrongdoer will be paid back for the wrong he has done, and there is no partiality. The plans of the heart belong to man, but the answer of the tongue is from the Lord.
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